Problems.

Assalamualaikum and Hello there people.

I'm back.
Hi guys, how are you?
Be happy.


When you're unsatisfied, what would you do?
Some people would attack the person you're unsatisfied too.
Some people would rather say something to the person in a rational way.

But, to the people who we unsatisfied, there would be two;
One, they will accept it and admit their mistakes.
Two, they will admit their mistakes but they will blame your side too.

Which side are you?

When you talked about the thing you unsatisfied on directly, the person might misunderstand.

Meanwhile,

When you talked about the thing you unsatisfied to indirectly, which you would say something but 'berkias,' 
the person might get misunderstood too.

And,

There are many people around the world just don't like being accuse.

There's a person who thinks that what they do, is a good thing.

There's a person who thinks we should think about it ourselves.

There's a person who thinks what they do, we knew. We knew their way to make something happened.

Let's say,

Your sister promise you to buy you a new shoe and bag for your birthday. You might get it let since your sister is in Japan now, studying. 

A weeks later, your birthday had passed. You still didn't get your presents yet.You asked your sister. 

She said, you will get it late. She's on hiatus.

Okay, you need to endure it.

A month later, the presents came. You're a bit disappointed with your sister. She just mailed you a pair or shoes, which the one she promised too.

Where's the another one? 

You emailed to your sister and let out your disappointment. You typed your words in rational way. You read and typed it again and again, because you afraid she might get frustrate with your words.

You're now protecting your sister's heart, prevent it to be broken.

You're expecting she would say sorry or she would have said she done some mistakes while sending it to you. But you're wrong.

Maybe because you still don't know about her hearts yet.

She said she will posted it later, since she was on hiatus now and she was lacked of her expenses to pay the shipping cost. She was mad.

She said, why do you accused her. Why don't you asked her first?

When you explained the situation and the promise that both of you have made, she still said 'Why don't you ask first?'

You explained that you don't know her way to send it since you're already know that sending both at one time would be easier.

All she said, 'Why don't you ask? I just want you to ask me nicely. That's it.'

When you say, 'You didn't explain your way to send me this to me,'

She would have said, 'Which way do I have to explain to you? Just think about it yourself. Use your head.'

And after all, you need to low down your ego, 'I'm sorry.'

She replied, 'I'm sorry too. But you need to ask me first, just don't accuse me arbitrary, like what you do now.'

On your side, what do you feels?

Then, when you opened your twitter or something, you saw your sister came out with a status. She said, 'I'm frustrated with the person who doesn't understands me and accuse me at their will. I'm tired of all this bla bla bla bla..'

All of her friends felt sorry for her. 

Then come up in your mind, 'Should I do the same?Should I just make people felt sorry to me?'

If it's you, what would you do?

Above all, you just lowered down your egoism.


End.


It's in fasting month and we're all just started to fast in 7 days. Still, 23 days remaining. I had promise myself, I'm going to upgrading my iman, my ibadah.

How about you?

Still, when you're happy or sad, when problems come, accept it.

One thing you should remember; Cry when it happens and accept it. The day after, start smiling.

And Allah just gave just the wrong person, just for us to realize and to figure out our mistakes and provides lesson for us to adapt in other situation.


I'm doing it now. I'm enduring it.

Have a blast,
Anne :D